05/28/2026
Most parents think the last tuition check means game over for college. The data says it's halftime.
50 percent of parents with adult children still provide regular financial support, spending $1,474 a month to do so. That's more than twice what they're putting toward their own retirement.
Here's what "just helping out a little" actually looks like:
✅ 75 percent of parents aged 45+ are financially supporting at least one adult child, even though over half of those children can meet their own basic needs, according to a 2025 AARP survey.
✅ 42 percent of supporting parents report financial stress. 9 percent have retired early because of it.
✅ 47 percent say they've sacrificed their own financial position for the sake of their kids.
✅ 18 percent say the support could continue indefinitely. They don't see an end in sight.
This isn't about being less generous. It's about being intentional.
Whether your kid just graduated, graduated five years ago, or is still in school, the question is the same: Is your support happening by design or by default?
That's worth a conversation.