Shelly Rees Divorce & Financial Coaching

10/28/2026

A marriage of decades isn’t unwound in days.

Just this week, a new client told me how grateful she was that we’d started working together.

After more than 25 years of marriage, her husband was rushing her to get divorced.

He told her in mid-October. That same evening, she found me online. Two days later, we had a complimentary consultation. Five days after that, we were in our first strategy session.

She needed a way to respond to the pressure without being rushed into decisions she wasn’t ready to make.

Here’s what she was able to tell her husband:

“I just started working with a divorce coach, and she has a three-month program. By the end of those three months, I’ll have so much more clarity and understanding of this.”

That’s the power of giving yourself time and having a plan.

My Clarity package is a three-month container designed to help you prepare for divorce with greater confidence and understanding, around the finances and so much more.

You’ll have one-on-one time with me, practical organizing tools and templates, and support through Upward Club, my private client community with weekly group coaching opportunities.

And no, the timing isn’t a coincidence.

Washington State has a 90-day waiting period before a divorce petition can be finalized. I’ve also seen, over five years of doing this work and walking alongside nearly 100 divorcing individuals, how much can shift in three months when someone has time and support on their side.

You don’t have to have an answer to every question today.

You *can* take the time to understand your full financial picture, explore your options, organize your information, and prepare for the decisions ahead.

If you’re contemplating divorce or your spouse is pushing you to move faster than you’re ready to go, let’s talk.

🌅 Visit my website to preview the Clarity package and book a complimentary consultation. [Link in first comment.] Let’s get you financially ready to be emotionally free.

10/05/2026

Join me at the free Washington State Second Saturday Divorce Education Workshop this fall! 📅️ As the resident CDFA, I'll be presenting alongside experts in law, real estate and therapy to cover the legal, financial, and emotional aspects of divorce. 🤝️ Upcoming dates: 10/10 & 11/14, 10am-1pm PT via Zoom. Sign up for free → link in comments below.

09/17/2026

What’s next for you? Divorce is an opportunity to turn the page.

With financially savvy guidance, I help you envision and start to write your next chapter.

My Finances First Framework (TM) starts with dreaming about this sequel. The F in FIRST stands for Future.

Because if you don’t know where you’re heading, any path will get you there.

Ready to script your sequel? Book a Complimentary Consultation—link in bio or on my website.

💡Inspiration from the 49th Port Townsend Wooden Boat Festival

09/11/2026

Free virtual workshop this Saturday, 9/12, 10am-1pm. Hear from a Washington State divorce attorney, a Certified Divorce Lending Professional, a therapist and a Certified Divorce Financial Analyst.

Our state’s workshop is run out of Clark County (Vancouver, WA), but the info is applicable state-wide.

Link to register in comments. It’s run via Zoom as a webinar, and at the end you can ask questions of the presenters.

(Later this fall, I will be the CDFA presenter. 😊)

Highly recommend as a crash course on WA State divorce process and things to consider, especially valuable if you’re contemplating or just getting started.

Learn more about Second Saturday Divorce Workshops being held online and in-person from coast to coast. Find the workshop closest to you. Divorce support, information and hope.

07/10/2026

I can't believe it was more than 20 years ago that I moderated my first local candidate forum!

Last Tuesday, I had the privilege of stepping back up to the podium at the Port Ludlow Beach Club as moderator for the League of Women Voters' Jefferson County primary election forum for the candidates for County Commissioner.

The League chair introduced me by mentioning I got into this role as a result of reporting for the Leader newspaper and gaining a reputation for "even-handedness"—and that through the pandemic I helped lead many of the League's "Zoom forums." Although they take more time out of my busy schedule, I really do prefer the in-person forums. They energize me.

What energized me most, though, was looking around the room on Tuesday.

The candidates brought thoughtful ideas, respect for one another, and a genuine commitment to public service. Two of them are younger than I am (!), and I left feeling optimistic about the next generation of local leadership.

In a time when national politics often dominates the conversation, I'm reminded that local government is where decisions touch our everyday lives most directly. These races matter. The people who serve on county commissions shape our communities in tangible ways.

Volunteering as a moderator is one small way I can help create a space where voters hear directly from candidates and make informed decisions. I'm thankful to the League of Women Voters for the opportunity to lead in this way, and to everyone who participated in making the forum possible.

If you're eligible to vote in the August 4 primary, I hope you'll take the time to learn about your local candidates and cast your ballot.

Because local politics is where it's at.

(Photo credit to Reuben Cash, videographer)

07/07/2026

Launching this month: Upward Club, my community for moving onward and upward, through divorce and beyond.

After a 4-month group coaching pilot last fall and lots of clients asking "when will Empower Hours return?", I magicked a bigger, better version of that experience.

The monthly rhythm includes two 💡Empower Hours (open coaching roundtables), a 📈 Monthly Training that will be recorded, and a fun social gathering the last Friday of the month called Thrive Time, aka ☕ Coffee & Community.

The bigger vision: People at different stages of divorce and post-divorce life gathering together, learning from one another, and building an upwardly trending future. ⤴

For now, it's invitation-only for my current clientele.

Tomorrow is my first "Empower Hour" open coaching roundtable. Am I excited?

🎉🎪😍🎺🎇 YES, I'm excited!

07/03/2026

Last week I opened my doors to celebrate some meaningful milestones: five years in my home office, my 50th birthday, and earning my Certified Divorce Financial Analyst (CDFA) designation.

What I expected to be a casual two-hour drop-in open house turned into a three-hour gathering because no one wanted to leave.

Fifteen colleagues, referral partners, clients and friends filled my home with conversation, laughter, and new connections. Around the room were financial advisors, attorneys, coaches, a Realtor, a CPA, and a bookkeeper—all people who support clients through life’s transitions in different ways.

Instead of listing job titles on our name tags, I invited everyone to write how they support people through change. Some of my favorite answers were “Good listening” and “Fierce advice.”

I ordered a shiny gold nametag for myself through Etsy with the title of “Divorce Financial Strategist”—proud to claim that!

One of the greatest joys was watching people meet each other for the first time. An estate planning attorney new to town getting to know a financial advisor. Coaches connecting with other coaches. New conversations beginning around my kitchen bar.

Someone described me that evening as “a connector,” and that’s a meaningful compliment for me.

As I reflected afterward, I realized this gathering wasn’t really about celebrating me. It was about celebrating the community of care we’ve built together and the privilege of walking alongside people during some of life’s biggest transitions.

Thank you to everyone who came, brought a birthday card, made a new connection, and helped make the evening so memorable.

I have a feeling this may become an annual summer tradition. ❤️

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06/18/2026

To the grads 🎓 and those divorcing, a little love letter:

Today is the first day of the rest of your life.

Just stop and think about that.

Although this is true every day, today it seems more poignant. It’s graduation night at my local high school, and a hundred eager young people will be closing one chapter and turning to the blank page of a new one.

My divorcing friends and clients know this feeling very well.

Many face the blank page with uncertainty at best, and dread at worst.

Usually, it’s the financial blank that is most worrisome.

That’s where I come in, as a financially focused divorce coach who provides clarity on your new reality, as well as what’s possible.

I just sent this image to a brand new client who made her decision today to include me on her divorce preparation team. I’m beyond excited to work with her, before she even announces to her spouse that she’s contemplating this change.

Today is indeed a memorable first day.

May the high school graduates — and YOU as well — look back on today and be glad for the choices you made.

Congrats to the Class of 2026! 🎊

06/08/2026

In the dark about divorce, and what to expect?

When a client uttered these words on a coaching call last week, she spoke the truth.

“I can’t imagine how I would’ve gotten through this without you. It would be like going totally blind.”

Ouch.

We were working together on one of my organizing tools that I call the Attorney Backgrounder. It helps you tell your story succinctly, present your most urgent questions, and be recognized as an ideal client by the attorneys you interview.

Bonus: you get more out of your attorney consult, because the Backgrounder is sent ahead for context.

And her email this morning made me smile: “You are Godsent!”

You simply don’t know what you don’t know about this process, which is highly emotional, fundamentally legal, and very, very financial.

And you can’t see issues you don’t know are there.

That’s where my divorce financial expertise and experience comes in.

I’m celebrating the 5th year of my divorce coaching practice and my CDFA credential is leading the way. If your main concerns are financial, let’s talk.

https://www.shellyreesrandall.com/divorce-support

05/04/2026

A *NEW* resource for women contemplating or starting divorce: “5 Money Moves to Get Your Divorce Moving.”

It’s my free checklist you can complete in just one day, with my $avvy tips on how to start establishing your financial independence. Think of it as a mini yoga retreat! 🧘‍♀️

It’s not the same-old advice, I promise. Plus I’ve given you links to try my favorite financial institutions and tools, if you’re the type who doesn’t enjoy researching banks or credit cards. 🤣 Look for my “Quick Pick” links ✴️ on each page.

I call it a checklist, but it’s really a beautiful booklet for your financial fresh start. I designed it with an inspiring yoga theme because…well…ahem…

…in the middle of my weekly yoga class, when I was supposed to be focusing on my breath-body connection, my Business Brain was busy thinking about YOU. And how I could communicate the importance of taking these small but mighty actions to set yourself up for future stability and success.

These 5 Money Moves are like the foundational moves in yoga, I realized. Plank, cobra, up dog, down dog, mountain pose.

Without these basic skills, you can’t move forward in your practice.

Again and again in my work, I see the importance of establishing early financial independence. These 5 Money Moves are practical, totally possible, and most of all, empowering. 💗

Grab the free checklist and take one action — or all 5! — today! (👇 Link in comments below.)