08/31/2026
$30,000 toward a down payment at 35 or a $100,000+ inheritance received at 65?
I’d argue the $30,000 could have a much bigger impact on someone’s life.
If you live into your 80s and 90s, there’s a decent chance your kids will be approaching retirement themselves by the time they inherit your money.
And sure, $100,000+ receiver at 65 is still a wonderful gift.
But $30,000 at 35?
1) That could help buy your child their first home, or
2) Pay for childcare during the expensive years, or
3) Knock out student loans or pay off a car, or
4) Simply give a young family some much-needed breathing room.
Obviously, your own retirement security comes first. I’m not suggesting giving away money you might eventually need.
But once you’re confident you have more than enough, I think it’s worth asking:
“When would this money actually make the biggest difference in my kids’ lives?”