05/26/2026
There are certain things in life that are incredibly easy to postpone.
Not because they are unimportant…
but because psychologically, we convince ourselves there is still plenty of time.
I’ve been guilty of this myself at different points in life, and after years working with families, I’ve seen the same pattern repeatedly.
A few examples come to mind:
• Buying life insurance
Many younger people postpone it because the idea of becoming seriously ill, injured, or passing away feels distant and unlikely. Yet modern policies are often designed for much more than just a death benefit. Some can provide living benefits, emergency access to cash, and financial flexibility during difficult moments in life.
• Estate planning
This is one of the most commonly delayed conversations. Many families assume they “don’t have enough” to justify planning. But if you own a home, have children, retirement accounts, life insurance, or people you care about, you already have an estate. The real question becomes: do you have a plan for it?
Even younger adults often overlook essential documents like a Health Care Directive or Power of Attorney simply because nobody expects an accident or medical emergency to happen to them.
• Reviewing beneficiary designations
Life changes quickly. Marriage, divorce, children, deaths in the family, or changing relationships can all affect whether your assets still pass according to your wishes. Yet many people never revisit these designations after initially completing them.
The unfortunate reality is that procrastination in these areas can create:
• unnecessary court proceedings
• family conflict
• delays and legal expenses
• unintended distributions
• lack of liquidity during difficult times
• and avoidable stress for the people we love most
Most people are not avoiding these conversations because they do not care.
They avoid them because life feels busy… and because we naturally assume there will always be more time.
Until one day, life reminds us otherwise.
Clarity today can prevent enormous confusion tomorrow.
Richard
Holtheuer Group