Wealth Protection Management - Lili A. Vasileff Divorce Financial Planner

Wealth Protection Management - Lili A. Vasileff Divorce Financial Planner Certified Divorce Financial Planner, Mediator, Matrimonial Litigation Expert, Financial Forensics

Lili Vasileff, CFP, MAFF, CDFA
Mediator, Matrimonial Litigation Expert, Divorce Financial Expert, Financial Forensics, Wealth Advisor, Collaborative Divorce Financial Specialist, Collaborative Trainer, Speaker, Author of Money and Divorce

Gray divorce is on the rise — and the financial impact can be significant.“The older you are, the more complicated it be...
06/03/2026

Gray divorce is on the rise — and the financial impact can be significant.
“The older you are, the more complicated it becomes.” - Lili Vasileff

For couples 50 and older, divorce often comes with complex financial realities that younger couples may not face. In fact, the gray divorce rate has doubled since 1990, and for those 65 and older, it has tripled. Many of these divorces occur after 20+ years of marriage, making the financial implications even more challenging.

From retirement planning and market volatility to supporting adult children, paying college tuition, and managing healthcare costs, the financial landscape can quickly become complicated.

Understanding the financial risks and preparing properly can make a critical difference in protecting your long-term financial security.

👉 Read the full article to learn more about why gray divorce is increasing and the financial challenges couples face: https://wealthprotectionmanagement.com/advisor-magazine-is-gray-divorce-exploding-due-to-financial-incompatibility/

Navigating divorce in Connecticut doesn’t have to mean conflict—it can be a path toward clarity, cooperation, and smarte...
05/27/2026

Navigating divorce in Connecticut doesn’t have to mean conflict—it can be a path toward clarity, cooperation, and smarter decision-making.

Divorce and Separation – Connecticut Edition is a practical, step-by-step guide designed to help couples move forward through mutual problem-solving—even in challenging situations.

Inside, you’ll discover how to:
✔️ Make informed decisions about separation timing
✔️ Navigate parenting and children-related choices
✔️ Structure finances to support your family’s future
✔️ Work collaboratively to reduce conflict and stress

With guided exercises, structured lessons, and expert insights, this book empowers you and your spouse to create thoughtful, balanced solutions—together.

Start making confident, informed decisions today:
👉 https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09BDD6KTX?ref_=cm_sw_r_cp_ud_dp_MZ2CZ4SBVRJJ0A7CHAHZ

Explore more resources here:
📚 https://wealthprotectionmanagement.com/the-book

💼 When high-asset divorce cases involve complex finances, top attorneys rely on experienced financial strategy to help p...
05/22/2026

💼 When high-asset divorce cases involve complex finances, top attorneys rely on experienced financial strategy to help protect their clients’ long-term outcomes.

With more than 30 years of experience in divorce financial planning, I specialize in the financial issues that can make or break a case — including:
✔️ Business-owner analysis
✔️ Equity compensation
✔️ Separate property tracing
✔️ Lifestyle assessments
✔️ Tax-optimized settlement modeling

⚖️ Trusted by attorneys in complex divorce litigation, I deliver the clarity, precision, and strategic financial insight needed when substantial assets are on the line.

📈 When millions are at stake, experience matters.
https://wealthprotectionmanagement.com/why-top-attorneys-bring-me-into-their-most-complex-divorce-cases/

🏡 Adult children moving back home? Here’s how to make it a successWith rising living costs, more families are navigating...
05/20/2026

🏡 Adult children moving back home? Here’s how to make it a success

With rising living costs, more families are navigating the return of adult children to the household—and doing it right requires more than just extra space.

I was honored to be featured in Barron’s, sharing practical strategies to help families create structure, accountability, and financial clarity during this transition.

💬 As I explain:
“Challenges often come down to discipline—not just money.”

Here’s what makes these living arrangements work:
✔️ Set clear goals *before* moving in
✔️ Establish timelines and measurable progress
✔️ Schedule regular financial check-ins
✔️ Keep communication open and expectations aligned

One key insight? Bringing in a neutral third party can help maintain accountability and reduce tension—so everyone stays on track.

As multigenerational living becomes more common, thoughtful planning can protect both family relationships and long-term financial health.

✨ Read the full article here:
👉 https://wealthprotectionmanagement.com/barrons-more-adult-kids-are-moving-back-home-how-to-make-it-work

💔 Should you forgive financial infidelity? Here's what you need to know.💰Financial infidelity—hidden accounts, secret sp...
05/12/2026

💔 Should you forgive financial infidelity? Here's what you need to know.💰

Financial infidelity—hidden accounts, secret spending, or deceptive money decisions—can be just as damaging as emotional betrayal in a relationship.

I recently joined Dr. Debra Dupree on the DCM Podcast (Episode 15) to break down:
✔️ What financial infidelity really looks like
✔️ How it impacts trust, marriage, and divorce
✔️ Whether forgiveness is possible—or even advisable
✔️ Smart strategies to protect yourself financially during divorce

If you’re navigating divorce or questioning financial transparency in your relationship, this conversation offers clarity, validation, and actionable guidance.

🎧 Listen here:
https://wealthprotectionmanagement.com/should-you-forgive-financial-infidelity

“Financial infidelity has been called the new adultery.” — Lili VasileffFor years, I have been educating clients and pro...
05/06/2026

“Financial infidelity has been called the new adultery.” — Lili Vasileff

For years, I have been educating clients and professionals about the hidden dangers of financial infidelity—long before it became a widely discussed topic. In 2023, I was featured in Psychology Today discussing how this issue is impacting couples navigating gray divorce.

For couples over 50, the stakes are even higher:
Hidden accounts, secret spending, and undisclosed debt can quietly erode trust, derail retirement plans, and impact not just spouses—but adult children and future generations.

💡 In this must-read, learn how to:
✔️ Spot the warning signs early
✔️ Protect your financial future
✔️ Safeguard your family’s wealth

👉 Stay informed. Stay protected:
https://wealthprotectionmanagement.com/how-financial-infidelity-can-affect-your-gray-divorce/

Financial infidelity is suddenly in the spotlight—recently featured in The Wall Street Journal—but it’s not a new issue....
04/28/2026

Financial infidelity is suddenly in the spotlight—recently featured in The Wall Street Journal—but it’s not a new issue.

In fact, I have been sounding the alarm on this for years.

The truth?
Financial infidelity often starts small… a hidden purchase, a secret account, unexplained debt. But over time, it can quietly unravel trust, security, and even entire relationships.

The most concerning part: many people don’t recognize the warning signs until it’s too late.

If you’re in a relationship—or entering one—this is essential reading.

👉 Learn how to spot the red flags and protect yourself before problems escalate:
https://wealthprotectionmanagement.com/financial-infidelity-how-to-protect-yourself/

💰 Separate finances in a relationship — smart move or risky strategy?Is keeping separate bank accounts the key to harmon...
04/22/2026

💰 Separate finances in a relationship — smart move or risky strategy?

Is keeping separate bank accounts the key to harmony… or a hidden source of conflict?

In Lili’s latest blog, she breaks down the real truth about managing money independently within a relationship 👇

✨ The Upside:
✔️ More freedom and personal spending power
✔️ Build your own credit and financial identity
✔️ Reduce arguments over everyday purchases

⚠️ The Downside:
❌ Can lead to communication breakdowns
❌ May create distrust or secrecy
❌ Risk of financial imbalance or control issues

💡 The bottom line?
Separate finances can work—but only with clear communication, trust, and a shared plan.

👉 Curious if it’s right for your relationship? Read the full breakdown here: https://wealthprotectionmanagement.com/lilis-tips-the-truth-about-separate-finances-in-a-relationship/

I am honored to share that I have been selected as a 2026 Investment News Excellence Awardee – Advisor of the Year. (Reg...
04/16/2026

I am honored to share that I have been selected as a 2026 Investment News Excellence Awardee – Advisor of the Year. (Regional – Northeast)

This recognition is one of the highest distinctions in the wealth management and financial planning industry, celebrating advisors who demonstrate exceptional leadership across client service, portfolio strategy, innovation in financial planning, regulatory compliance, and commitment to community impact.

I am deeply grateful for this acknowledgment of my work in helping clients navigate complex financial landscapes with clarity, discipline, and a long-term planning mindset. At the core of my practice is a commitment to:
• Thoughtful, customized wealth management strategies
• Strong, trust-based client relationships and long-term retention
• Ongoing education around investment planning and market strategy
• Advocacy for financial literacy and meaningful planning outcomes

Thank you to my clients, colleagues, and community for your continued trust and support. It is an honor to serve and to be recognized among such an exceptional group of industry professionals!
https://investmentnewsawards.com/2026-winners-excellence-awardees

See more of my awards and honors: https://wealthprotectionmanagement.com/about-lili-vasileff/

💰 Tax season is here—and divorce can make taxes even more complicated.Now is the perfect time to revisit this 4-part blo...
04/14/2026

💰 Tax season is here—and divorce can make taxes even more complicated.
Now is the perfect time to revisit this 4-part blog series on the tax implications of divorce, created by V***a Family Law Firm in collaboration with Stacy Collins, CPA (Stout).

This series breaks down complex tax rules into practical guidance to help you:
• Avoid costly tax surprises during and after divorce
• Make smarter decisions when dividing assets
• Plan ahead to protect your long-term financial future

📘 Divorce & Taxes: A 4-Part Guide to Avoiding Costly Mistakes

Part 1: Hidden tax traps to know before dividing marital assets
Part 2: How to reduce capital gains taxes when selling the marital home
Part 3: Common divorce tax mistakes—and how to avoid them
Part 4: Long-term tax planning strategies after divorce

Huge thanks to V***a Family Law Firm for an insightful and impactful collaboration.

👉 Read the full series here: https://wealthprotectionmanagement.com/vacca-family-law-tax-implications-in-divorce/

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