06/03/2026
If you’re trying to buy a home, upgrade your home, or decide whether to move in this housing market, this post is for you!
The housing market right now can feel like the dashboard of a 25-year-old sedan that hasn’t been serviced… ever: like every check engine light is on.
Interest rates are higher.
Home prices are still elevated.
Inventory can feel limited.
Property taxes are expensive.
Insurance costs have become harder to ignore.
Renovations rarely stay on budget.
Somehow, the house still needs a new roof.
For high-earning professionals, the question often gets reduced to:
“Can we afford the house?”
The better question is:
“Can we afford the house without derailing our long-term goals?”
That’s the part that often gets overlooked.
A home decision can affect your cash reserves, monthly flexibility, tax planning, investment contributions, equity compensation decisions, school or childcare costs, career flexibility, retirement progress, and overall peace of mind.
In a challenging housing market, I think the best decisions start with three numbers:
1. A truly comfortable payment
Not the maximum payment a lender approves. The payment should still allow you to save, invest, travel, give, and sleep at night.
2. The total cash needed
The down payment is only one piece. Closing costs, moving expenses, and the inevitable “we didn’t realize that would cost so much” expenses all need to be included.
3. The opportunity cost
If more money goes into the house, what gets delayed? Future travel? College funding? Investment contributions?
That does not mean you shouldn’t buy the house. It means the house should fit into the plan, not become the plan. Before making a move, consider asking:
Does this home support the life we want, or stretch us into a more expensive version of stress?
A good housing decision should give you more stability, not just more square footage.
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