06/01/2026
This is an unpopular opinion, I know. But having your finances completely combined when you are married is essential.
Yes, you can do just fine having things separated. But do you really want a marriage and financial picture that is "just fine"??
When you are married, you are ONE and your finances should reflect that. It is not MY money and YOUR money or MY debt and YOUR debt. It is all OURS.
WE make decisions together. WE use our household income towards OUR goals.
Do you see the pronouns I am using here?
You will have a closer relationship when your money is combined and you communicate openly about your finances. You will be able to accomplish your goals faster when you work together as a team.
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