26/08/2026
He looked strangely familiar.
A business development manager referred a prospect to me. I was told that he wanted to speak with a Malaysian adviser.
I called him, and he suggested that we meet at The Starling.
During our meeting, I took him through my investment and portfolio management presentation. He showed me two bank accounts containing substantial sums and questioned me closely about Bluestar, our investment performance and fees.
At the end of the meeting, he requested brochures to study.
It appeared to be a genuine prospect meeting.
But throughout our conversation, I could not shake the feeling that I had seen him somewhere before.
When I returned to my car, I searched his name.
And there he was.
He was the founder of another financial advisory firm.
He had not disclosed this before or during our meeting. Instead, he allowed me to conduct an entire presentation on the understanding that he was a prospective client interested in investing through Bluestar.
I subsequently learnt that, before being referred to me, he had requested the profiles of all Bluestar’s Malaysian advisers. My office declined to provide them.
He then asked to speak with a Malaysian Chinese adviser—and was referred to me.
Why would the founder of another advisory firm want to review the profile of every Malaysian adviser?
Was he studying Bluestar’s proposition? Was he assessing our advisers with a view to approaching or recruiting someone?
I cannot claim to know his intentions. But the sequence of events raises obvious questions.
And if recruitment was indeed the intention, I am left with an even bigger question:
Why would anyone consider joining a founder who began the relationship by deceiving them about who he was and wasting their time?
There is nothing wrong with wanting to understand another firm’s proposition. There is also nothing wrong with approaching another professional to explore working together.
But such a conversation should begin with honesty.
This is shocking behaviour from the founder of a financial advisory firm—particularly in an industry where we ask clients to entrust us with their life savings.
Presentations can be polished. Credentials can be impressive.
But integrity is revealed by how we behave when we believe the other person does not know who we are.
And surely, integrity should begin with the founder.