06/04/2026
Like many of you, I find myself part of the "sandwich generation".
Supporting an aging parent while working full time and still helping children or young adult children navigate life's challenges.
Some days it can feel like you're being pulled in multiple directions at once.
Financially, this stage of life often comes with competing priorities:
✔ Helping parents with care needs
✔ Supporting children through school, housing, or major life transitions
✔ Saving for your own retirement
✔ Managing debt and everyday expenses
One of the biggest challenges is that it's easy to put your own needs on the back burner while you're busy taking care of everyone else.
A financial plan can't remove these pressures, but it can help you make informed decisions, understand your options, and create a path forward that balances today's responsibilities with tomorrow's goals.
If you're caring for family on both sides, here's something I remind myself of, and many of my clients as well: taking care of yourself physically, emotionally, and financially is not optional.
It's essential.
Looking after your own well-being and financial future isn't selfish. In fact, it's one of the most important things you can do for the people who depend on you.
If you're feeling stretched between caring for others and planning for your own future, it may be time to take a step back and make sure your plan still reflects your priorities. Sometimes a conversation is all it takes to bring a little more clarity and confidence to the road ahead.
Laura Chanin CFP®
302-1688 152nd Street, Surrey, BC
604-385-1164
rightdirectionfinancial.ca