04/04/2019
In the movie, Manchester by the Sea, Casey Affleck plays Lee Chandler, a depressed handyman working in Boston. His brother Joe Chandler, who owns a fishing boat in Manchester, Massachusetts, dies.
In his will, Joe names Lee as the guardian of his son Patrick. You know there is a problem in the planning when Lee is sitting in Joe’s lawyer’s office reading the will and saying, “I can’t do this”. Lee had no idea that his brother had named him Patrick’s guardian. The lawyer stammered, “I just assumed that Joe discussed this with you”. Wow, is that a bad assumption!
This critical estate planning mistake is at the heart of the movie, and it is something that should be avoided at all costs.
Planning on who should raise your minor children if something happens to you is one of the most serious decisions you will ever be called upon to make during your lifetime. It should be well thought out and discussed with the person or persons whom you decide to name as your child’s guardian. Lee reasons that Joe didn’t discuss the appointment with him, because, “He knew I would refuse”. Knowing that the person you choose is likely to refuse is not something to be overlooked or taken lightly. Particularly, when Joe knows there are good reasons for Lee to want to refuse. The absence of any thoughtful family discussion leads to the tension which is vividly portrayed in the film.
So, by all means, watch the film, but do not emulate the estate planning failure which is at the heart of the movie. Persons named as guardians for your minor children, should not only want the responsibility but should also be made aware of your choice, well in advance of any tragedy.
Casey Affleck went on to win the Academy Award for Best Actor for his performance.
Manchester by the Sea vertelt het verhaal van de familie Chandler, een arbeiders gezin uit Massachusetts. Als Lee’s (Casey Affleck) oudere broer Joe (Kyle Ch...