06/06/2023
How to avoid STD
Money is one of the major causes of relationship breakdowns, with over a third of people saying they have fights about money regularly. So, it is important to sit down with your partner and have an open and honest conversation about money matter, what’s important to you and your partner, what goals you have and that you are on the same page. And also to be up to date as to where your financial situation is as a couple and individually.
Regularly discussing money sounds boring but actually, if it enables you both to live a happy, fulfilled life and achieve big life goals together, why wouldn’t you?
New relationships can be exciting but when you take that big step and commit to moving in together, you need what you are getting yourself into financially. If you aren’t fully across each other’s financial worlds yet, make sure you do and ask if they have any debt. If so, what’s it for and what’s their repayment strategy? Make sure that they are responsible for this debt and you are not taking on a commitment you cannot afford.
If you currently have joint accounts or assets with your partner, make sure you’re both clear on what the money should (and shouldn’t) be used for. Take time to get across your transactions in any joint accounts.
Get joint signatories for large withdrawals or loans you have and make sure you know to access them. You are liable for all your joint debt so make sure you know what exactly it’s for and have a repayment strategy to clear the debt and reduce your risk.
If your partner has a business, ask them about the business’ health and review financial statements.
Never sign anything you don’t understand. Don’t be bullied into ‘showing your love’ by putting any new loans/credit cards/buy now pay later accounts into your name. If they really love you, they should never put you in that situation.
Have your own account. I believe, everyone, no matter how long you’ve been together or how much you adore them, should have an account of their own. This should contain a few months of expenses that can’t be accessed by anyone else.
If you end a relationship, make sure your name is off the lease (assuming you rent), call your mortgage provider and tell them you have separated. Make sure you reconfirm you do have joint signatories to take out funds or to be able to redraw or close the loan whilst you get a financial agreement for your property settlement, take your name off utility accounts. Make sure you update your super and life insurance beneficiaries and get your will and estate plan redone.
Get legal advice. Find someone who specialises in this area. Find out their fees and engage them as quickly as possible to see what options you have.
If you can implement the above, you have put yourself in the best possible position to avoid an STD in the future!
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