10/08/2025
You want to help.
Maybe it’s your kids trying to buy a house.
Maybe the grandkids need support with school or just life in general.
You say yes because you love them.
But the question you need to ask yourself, in the words of 80’s rock band Moving Pictures, is:
“What about me?”
What does this mean for your retirement?
Barbados to Byron?
Caribbean to Caboolture?
Maybe not.
It can be tricky working out what you can give away without leaving yourself short down the track.
This actually comes up a lot.
People feel torn between wanting to be generous and making sure they’ve got enough for themselves.
Setting a boundary that still feels supportive.
It sounds easy and maybe with small amounts it can be.
But what if they need help with something big? Checked property prices lately?
You don’t have to say no.
But you do want to say yes in a way that keeps your future safe too.
If this has been on your mind lately, it might be worth chatting through.