My Divorce Solution

06/22/2026

After 200 episodes, 10 years, and more than 5,000 families supported, the biggest lesson we’ve learned is this: divorce was never just about divorce—it was always about clarity.

In this special episode of We Chat Divorce, Karen and Catherine look back at the patterns they’ve seen again and again and share 6 powerful lessons about money, marriage, and the decisions that shape your future.

The lessons:
1️⃣ Preparation is not a divorce activity—it’s a relationship activity.
2️⃣ Financial transparency is not the same as trust.
3️⃣ You probably know more than you think you know.
4️⃣ Documents tell the story.
5️⃣ Handing your finances to an attorney is not the same as understanding them.
6️⃣ Mediation without financial knowledge is amicable unknowing.

Whether you are happily married, questioning what comes next, or navigating divorce right now, one truth remains:

Financial clarity creates better decisions.

Because a stronger relationship, a better settlement, and a more secure future all begin with knowing your numbers.

🎧 Watch the full 200th episode of We Chat Divorce and discover the lessons a decade of divorce financial work has taught us.

06/22/2026

Divorce is stressful enough. When the financial picture is complex and the conflict is high, having calm, organized, knowledgeable support can make all the difference.

We’re grateful for this client’s kind words:

“Karen Chellew and Catherine Shanahan were professional, highly knowledgeable, and organized throughout the process. Divorce can be extremely stressful, and Karen always had a calm, courteous approach that truly helped me through some of the most difficult times. I would highly recommend MDS to anyone going through a divorce.”

At My Divorce Solution, our goal is to help clients move through divorce with clarity, confidence, and a stronger understanding of the financial decisions ahead.

Because you deserve to feel prepared — not overwhelmed.

Start with clarity. Take the free Divorce Financial Assessment at MyDivorceSolution.com.

06/22/2026

Cryptocurrency can add a serious layer of complexity to divorce.

Unlike traditional assets, crypto may not show up neatly on financial disclosure forms. It can be volatile, difficult to trace, held across multiple wallets or exchanges, and misunderstood during settlement negotiations. But that does not mean it should be overlooked — or divided without the right financial analysis.

In our latest blog, My Divorce Solution breaks down what you need to know about cryptocurrency in divorce, including how it may be classified, identified, valued, and divided.

When digital assets are part of the marital estate, documentation and strategy matter.

Read the full article on the MDS website:

Cryptocurrency is marital property in divorce. Learn how to uncover hidden crypto, navigate volatile valuations, and secure your fair share of digital assets.

06/19/2026

This is one of the most important lessons we’ve learned after 10 years of helping people navigate divorce.

Your attorney’s role is to advocate for your legal interests—but they are not there to determine whether your settlement supports your long-term financial future.

A settlement can look fair on paper and still leave you financially vulnerable years later.

Many people spend their marriage relying on a spouse to manage the money. Then, during divorce, they unknowingly shift that same dependence to an attorney.
True empowerment comes from understanding your own financial picture—your assets, debts, cash flow, taxes, and the long-term impact of your decisions.

Because a fair agreement today is not always a fair future.
Knowledge creates confidence. Clarity creates better decisions.

🎧 Watch our latest episode of We Chat Divorce where we share the biggest lessons from 10 years helping more than 5,000 families navigate divorce.

06/18/2026

“I trust my spouse” and “I understand our finances” are not always the same thing.

One of the biggest lessons we’ve learned after 10 years helping families through divorce is that financial silence creates distance. It starts small: a credit card no one talks about, an account only one person manages, or avoiding difficult conversations about spending.

But avoiding money conversations doesn’t keep the peace—it replaces facts with assumptions.

If you feel like you need financial independence, that’s not a secret to hide. It’s a conversation to have. Healthy financial relationships are built on transparency, boundaries, and knowing where you stand.

Whether you stay married or your path changes, financial clarity gives you options.

🎧 Listen to our 200th episode of We Chat Divorce as we share the biggest lessons we’ve learned from helping 5,000+ families find clarity, confidence, and control.

https://youtu.be/mAxmYAUQScM?is=vaAanYtKxQhWniEA

06/12/2026

Your divorce decisions are only as strong as the financial information behind them.

The MDS Divorce Financial Portrait™ gives you a complete, verified understanding of your marital estate before critical decisions are made.

More than a net worth statement, it provides:
✔️ A documented inventory of assets and debts
✔️ Income and cash flow analysis
✔️ Lifestyle and post-divorce budget modeling
✔️ Support calculations where applicable
✔️ Multiple settlement scenarios to understand your options

When you have the facts, you can stop guessing, reduce uncertainty, and move forward with confidence.

Because the best divorce decisions are made with clarity—not assumptions.

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06/11/2026

One of the most overlooked benefits of an uncontested divorce isn't financial—it's emotional.
In this week's episode, attorney Renee E. Turner explains that in contested divorces involving children, courts may appoint an attorney for the children, requiring them to become part of the process.
While every situation is different, many parents want to minimize their children's involvement in the divorce whenever possible.
That's why understanding your options matters. An uncontested approach can sometimes reduce conflict, lower stress, and help keep children out of the middle.
🎙️ Listen to the full conversation now and learn how different divorce paths can impact your family. https://youtu.be/-XSqL4eQNbM

06/10/2026

Divorce can feel overwhelming when you believe everything is out of your hands. But one of the biggest takeaways from this week's episode is this: you have more options—and more control—than you may realize.
Many people assume that if their spouse is difficult, uncooperative, or high-conflict, the only path forward is an expensive legal battle. The reality is often very different.
When you understand what is within your control, divorce becomes less about reacting to fear and more about making informed decisions.
🎙️ In this week's episode, we explore contested vs. uncontested divorce, with Renee Turner Thoughtful Lawyering, PLLC - discover common misconceptions about participation, and why understanding your options can help you move forward with greater confidence and clarity.

Listen now and start replacing assumptions with facts.

06/08/2026

A Marital Settlement Agreement is supposed to create clarity.
But if the financial picture was never fully understood, the agreement may simply formalize confusion.
Too often, people reach the finish line exhausted. Decisions get rushed. Details get overlooked. Intentions that seemed clear in mediation become unclear years later when it's time to implement the agreement.
What exactly does "retain the business" mean?
Who remains liable for debt?
What happens if the business is sold?
Were all assets properly disclosed?
These questions are far easier—and far less expensive—to answer before you sign.
A settlement agreement should provide certainty, not create future disputes. The more complex the finances, the more important it is to slow down, verify the facts, and understand the long-term impact of every provision.
Clarity before signatures can prevent years of confusion after divorce.

06/08/2026

When divorce pressure peaks, most people chase one thing: relief. That impulse is completely human — but it's also where the most costly financial mistakes happen.

There's a gap between what you want right now (peace, silence, closure) and what you'll need for the rest of your life (income, liquid assets, and a settlement that actually works). We call it the Financial Clarity Gap — and it's the dangerous distance between agreeing too soon and negotiating from a verified financial picture.

If you sign before every account, property, debt, and income stream has been identified and confirmed, you risk locking in assumptions that will follow you for years.

The solution isn't more conflict. It's clarity over relief — facts first, then strategy. That's exactly what the MDS Financial Portrait™ is built to deliver.

What does your financial picture actually look like before you sign? Drop a comment or DM us to find out. https://mydivorcesolution.com/