12/08/2026
๐๐ก๐ ๐๐๐ญ๐ก ๐๐ก๐๐ญ ๐๐ก๐๐ง๐ ๐๐ ๐๐
At 24, I was already earning well into the upper four figures each month, more than I had expected at that stage of my career.
I knew I was in a fortunate position. Work was going well. I had a good boss. I was progressing.
And truthfully, ๐ ๐ก๐๐ ๐ง๐จ ๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ฉ๐๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ซ๐๐๐ฌ๐จ๐ง ๐ญ๐จ ๐ฅ๐๐๐ฏ๐.
Perhaps that's what made the decision so difficult.
It's probably easier to walk away when something is clearly wrong.
๐๐ญโ๐ฌ ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐๐ก ๐ก๐๐ซ๐๐๐ซ ๐ฐ๐ก๐๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฌ ๐๐ซ๐ ๐๐๐ญ๐ฎ๐๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฒ ๐ ๐จ๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ฐ๐๐ฅ๐ฅ.
Yet I found myself at a crossroads; stay on a path that was comfortable and familiar, or move into a Family Wealth Consultant role.
On paper, staying made sense. But not everything that shapes a career can be measured on paper. There was someone who had guided me tremendously during that season of my life. Interestingly, many of the things he taught me had very little to do with financial planning.
He taught me about life. How I dealt with people. How I approached difficult moments.
Somewhere along the way, I had also made him a promise. And ๐ ๐ฐ๐๐ง๐ญ๐๐ ๐ญ๐จ ๐ก๐จ๐ง๐จ๐ฎ๐ซ ๐ข๐ญ.
So I chose to move on. Not because I was unhappy. Not because I was looking for a better income.
๐ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ฏ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ ๐จ๐ ๐ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐ฆ๐ข๐ฌ๐๐ ๐ข ๐ก๐๐ ๐ฆ๐๐๐.
๐ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ฏ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ ๐ฌ๐จ๐ฆ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ ๐ฎ๐ข๐๐๐ ๐ฆ๐ ๐ฐ๐๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐๐๐ฒ๐จ๐ง๐ ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐๐๐ซ๐๐๐ซ.
๐๐ง๐ ๐ข ๐ฆ๐จ๐ฏ๐๐ ๐๐๐๐๐ฎ๐ฌ๐ ๐ข ๐ค๐ง๐๐ฐ ๐ฆ๐ฒ ๐ฉ๐๐ฌ๐ฌ๐ข๐จ๐ง ๐๐จ๐ซ ๐๐ข๐ง๐๐ง๐๐ข๐๐ฅ ๐ฉ๐ฅ๐๐ง๐ง๐ข๐ง๐ ๐ข๐ฌ ๐ฌ๐ญ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ญ๐ก๐๐ซ๐.
Looking back now, I realise how much that decision shaped the years that followed.
We often evaluate a career opportunity by looking at the role, the income, the progression and the benefits.
And of course, all these things matter.
But after all these years, Iโve learnt to value another question just as much:
Who might I become if I spend the next few years learning and building?
And sometimes, you only understand the value of that many years later.
I certainly didn't know at 24 where that decision would eventually take me. I just knew there was a promise, a person, and a passion worth taking a chance on. And I'm glad I did.
๐๐จ๐ฆ๐ ๐จ๐ ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฆ๐จ๐ฌ๐ญ ๐ข๐ฆ๐ฉ๐จ๐ซ๐ญ๐๐ง๐ญ ๐ซ๐๐ญ๐ฎ๐ซ๐ง๐ฌ ๐ข๐ง ๐ฅ๐ข๐๐ ๐ฐ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฅ ๐ง๐๐ฏ๐๐ซ ๐๐ฉ๐ฉ๐๐๐ซ ๐จ๐ง ๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ฒ๐ฌ๐ฅ๐ข๐ฉ. ๐๐ก๐๐ฒ ๐ฌ๐ก๐จ๐ฐ ๐ฎ๐ฉ ๐ฒ๐๐๐ซ๐ฌ ๐ฅ๐๐ญ๐๐ซ, ๐ข๐ง ๐ญ๐ก๐ ๐ฉ๐๐ซ๐ฌ๐จ๐ง ๐ฒ๐จ๐ฎโ๐ฏ๐ ๐๐๐๐จ๐ฆ๐.
Thank you Robin Tan