27/12/2022
All the children in all marriages (whether you were a good or bad dad) will always prefer their mother ahead of you as a man, this is partially because of the different roles evolution bestowed both mother and father. A father has to be firm, enforce discipline sometimes through "harsh methods". A mother being a caregiver and having given birth to the child has that closely knit relationship that you will never have as a father. Infact the evolutionary instincts of a woman's hierarchy is her children at the top, then herself, then if the husband lucky he will come a distance third. Add this to modern feminisms, Muzungu culture, and we have the right mix to set up a man for a lonely old age and an even lonelier death.
Men should stop trying to win over their children's future favors as that game was rigged against them for thousands of years by nature, feminists just drove the last nail on that coffin.
What modern men should do is what other men have been doing for thousands of years before Christianity and Hollywood filled our heads with nonsense.
Invest 50% or more of your resources, attention, time, etc in yourself as a man and in your future. The remaining 50% can go to your family, children and society in general. Trust me, nobody wants a poor grandpa who gave all his resources to everyone in his hey days and left nothing for himself.
Society can tolerate a 20, 30 or even 40 years old broke man, but a 60 years old broke man is a sick old dog just consuming resources and everyone is wondering when death will mercifully put him out of his misery.
60 years old man with enormous resources to his name on the other hand have the attention and loyalty of his wife, children, grandchildren and even the latest slay queens.
Men need to detached from that idealistic relationship where they expect unlimited supply of unconditional love and loyalty from his women and his children, because it's a myth.
Women themselves are realist their whole lives, they date and marry upwards, what makes you think she will be idealist in old age?
Come on, men, get off that horse because it's dead and no amount of whipping will bring it back to life! Men will always die alone, it has always been that way since time immemorial. Expecting this to change now is the biggest fallacy in this modern individualistic society.'
*From a -Broke Old Man*
